Counselling

Through the process of counselling, we connect with purpose and the collective intention of reflecting on and accepting or resolving a lesson through our way of being with a professional willing to connect with compassion and support our journey.

 

 
 
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individual counselling

This one on one service for young people or adults in private practice, schools, community organisations, or in nature provides confidential support for individuals to address challenges affecting their social, emotional, psychological, developmental, intellectual, spiritual, occupational, or physical wellbeing.

Melissa Shadforth is a person-centered practitioner who integrates theories of modern psychology with scientific mind-body practices and life experience. Melissa believes the therapeutic relationship is core to creating a safe space for present moment awareness, reflection, and exploration of a more integrated way of being. Melissa also collaborates with other practitioners in private practice at IMI to support healing of the whole person through an integrative approach, including biological, psychological, social, and spiritual elements.

How can Melissa help you or your child?

While cultivating trust, confidence and encouraging curiosity as the interactive process unfolds, Melissa supports clients to connect with their inner wisdom, develop insight, and cultivate compassion, connection, regulation, resilience, and inner trust to respond to life rather than react – and ultimately become their own advisor.

Through counselling, the client engages with Melissa in purposeful conversation and connection with the intention of accepting or resolving a specific challenge, life transition, health concern, or other imbalance through the process of solution identification, application, accomplishment, and growth. Further, the integration of psychotherapy modalities can support the development of insight across a client’s way of being. This can help the client adapt and adjust to align with their true self and break unhelpful cycles to allow new patterns of relating to emerge through the security of the therapeutic relationship. Essentially, to find a more peaceful state of equilibrium from within.

Refer below for testimonals received from clients in response to their counselling process with Melissa.

 
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group counselling

Melissa Shadforth works with children, adolescents, and families in private practice, schools, nature, and other safe locations by request to serve the needs of the group.

Refer to the group therapy programs offered through The Collective Journey or reach out to enquire about bespoke programs for schools, homeschool students, or peer groups on scheduled CPDs (continuing professional development days for teachers), sporting teams, or community organisations and other group counselling opportunities and workshops.

Refer below for testimonals received from clients in response to their counselling process with Melissa.

What is Nature-based counselling and adventure therapy?

It's a diverse field of practice combining adventure and outdoor environments with the intention of achieving therapeutic outcomes for those involved.

Ethically speaking, these programs are based on the principles of:

  • Positive regard for all people

  • Respect for differences in culture, gender, age and identity

  • Strong family and community connections

  • Transparency, informed consent, confidentiality

  • Voluntary participation

  • Selection for ‘readiness’ to participate

  • Attention to individual and group needs and hopes

  • Supportive physical, psychological, and social environments

  • Tailored adventure experiences

  • Provision of options and choices

  • Respect for cultural custodianship of country

  • Increasing self-awareness and reflexive practice

  • Safety and no harm to self, others or natural environments

Testimonials

"Attending counselling with Melissa was the best decision I have ever made.  Since our first session, Melissa’s genuine and caring nature has made me feel a total sense of safety and support.  Naturally an empathetic listener, she takes as much time as needed, so I can talk through my experience.  Her expertise in counselling (and mental health) literature has been a wealth of knowledge to me.  It is so rare to find someone who is not only intuitive, radiant with positive energy, but also highly professional and can offer actionable suggestions and functional resources. 

Melissa has a way of changing my perspective, in the most gentle and supportive way, so that I can see life’s possibilities and regain the strength and inner peace to keep going.  In a few months, she has made a significant impact in many areas of my life, e.g. self-love, parenting a child with special needs, marital challenges, dealing with past traumas. 

I find Melissa’s perspective on children especially insightful.  Her nonjudgmental view, coupled with her knowledge of neurodevelopmental differences and mental health makes her uniquely valuable to children and parents alike.”

ZH


"When people meet my eldest child, they often marvel at her maturity, confidence and resilience. Little do they know behind-the-scenes, her fears, insecurities and anxiousness are so overwhelming, she’s prone to extreme emotional outbursts. 

Two years ago, I felt alone and afraid. I feared for my daughter’s long-term mental and emotional wellbeing and I berated myself for not knowing how best to support her.

I don’t recall how we met Melissa Shadforth but I vividly recall how she turned our lives around. Through a series of workshops and hiking groups, she gave my daughter and girls her age their ‘tribe’.  In the most natural settings, through creativity and fun, the girls naturally released their fears and concerns; they shared their tween secrets; they embraced their unique selves and celebrated the differences in others.

Collectively and with compassion, Melissa equipped my daughter with the tools to tap into her inner strength and self-regulate. The best listener and full of wisdom and insight, she became the village I needed as she gentle guided me to better understand my daughter’s wellbeing needs. As my daughter is now navigating hormonal changes and the intense emotions that come with it, we continue to turn to Melissa for counselling and mentorship.

I will forever be grateful for all that Melissa has done and continues to do for my daughter and our family. In my line of work, I’ve met numerous counsellors, coaches and mentors. Melissa is in a league of her own."

IS


“Since I started working with Melissa, I have taken on more challenges and life has continued to throw me curveballs, but I feel empowered and confident that I can tackle each one in its due course. And that’s all thanks to Melissa. I have learned so much in our time together. I trust my intuition a lot more these days, answers come to me faster, self-discoveries become clearer and life becomes more of a dance than a struggle. I feel grateful every day.”

HE


“We love the programs Melissa offers and the work she does with children.  Our daughter had the opportunity to be with Melissa for several terms and absolutely loved it.  Typically reserved and less willing to participate in group activities, she came home each day happy, confident, energetic and sharing about friendship and health.  Melissa has a unique and wonderful way of listening, empowering the kids choices and enabling them to problem solve independently.”

LS


"My daughter joined Melissa's Trail Tribe program for two terms.  She adored it and looked forward to hiking with her "tribe" each week.  Melissa is a fantastic mentor.  She created a safe space to raise issues that that can sometimes be difficult to talk about. And she let the girls take the lead - not only in conversation, but on the hike as well, helping them build confidence and trust.  Lots of fun stories of jumping in the water, climbing trees and roasting marshmallows - and deep conversations.

This is a unique and special program.  I wish there were more like it."

SR


“The Trail Tribe program has made a very positive impact on my daughter.  I wish there was a Trail Tribe every day of our life!  It was amazing to watch my daughter’s joy on her hike days.  Then she came back with full of smiles and energy despite hiking at the end of a full school day! 

My daughter is not a big sharer of her day and life in general.  After the program, one day she asked us to go to the same trail together.  She was so happy to be there and I can tell it brought lot of sweet memories for her!  She led us through the path and appreciated everything along the way.  We are so thankful to Melissa for being a great mentor for girls and talking about a lot of things in a very safe and calming environment where my daughter was open to talk and listen.  She wanted to sign up for gardening at school after trail tribe, and she is now much more open to talk about her and others’ feelings.

Thank you hugely for such fun and meaningful walks with the girls. As a parent, I am so thankful that you are discussing various deep topics that are important and hard to start the conversation at home.

We would love to join again!!  It is such a special program that is a combination of many things in one bundle!  Very thankful for the contribution you made in our life!”

DI


“Thank you for all of the wonderful and insightful experiences that you have shared with my Daughter. She is much the richer for having spent the time with you!”

AR